Ritual guide

get a clear eulogy with heart

Are you working on your eulogy and are you stuck? Then you might be looking for inspiration, examples and perhaps tips.

You've come to the right place.

Browse through the extensive tips and examples via the menu. There you will find, for example:

Death is not pleasant. Usually it comes too early, sometimes too late, but ever rarely on time. And we all have to deal with it.

With the right words and rituals, you can say goodbye to someone in a dignified and authentic way.

Need some help? Feel free to contact us!

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You only hold a funeral once

If you can say goodbye carefully and with attention, you will start the next phase of farewell as well as possible. Your funeral director has a lot of knowledge of the logistical possibilities. But for the content, ask a ritual guide. This way you ensure that you don't overlook anything.

This is how you get started with the ritual guide:

you or you tell your stories about the deceased
together we translate those stories into parts of the farewell
you will receive guidance in the substantive preparations

If you wish, the ritual guide will be your 'master of ceremonies' during the farewell. If necessary, the ritual guide writes a speech in which your stories come into their own. And coaches you with your own speeches, so that you pronounce them with confidence.

You come into your own

You may dread the funeral service or cremation ceremony. All the fatigue of these days and all the resistance to saying goodbye sometimes come together in a grueling way.

That is also why the guidance of ritual guide Kaj van der Plas is pleasant. I ensure that you come into your own, that you feel seen and heard in your unique relationship with the deceased.

We make the farewell as good and beautiful as possible.

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How to write your own speech

Giving a speech yourself is worth the effort. But in the stressful days before a funeral, it is sometimes difficult to get your speech on paper. Therefore, use the tutorials below.

Writing a welcome word

Discover how to set the tone with a beautiful welcome

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Writing a funeral speech

Useful tips to quickly get your speech on paper

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Write a word of thanks

This is how you conclude the ceremony in a good way

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